Hipsters invasion!

My brother just showed me his new black notebook his friends presented on his birthday. The brand that produces such notebooks called 'Moleskine'  and they look like vintage books that come in different colours. They are also known for being used by Italian artists and 'genuises' of all times. So, my point is, my brother's friends made this gift at they really like this idea about so-called 'Hipsters'. Hipster goes from 'to be hip' and term was first used in 1940s in USA. So, once I've heard about this gift, I started looking for information and found really interesting stuff. 

When I googled word 'hipsters', most appeared sites were hipster haters sites. You really don't wan to click there as there are really horrible photos of weird people. I think, this might be people who treat hipsters as a wrong thing. 

So, then I found russian website where they actually explain what things make real hipster and I am going to name most of them. Hipsters' looks are made of unisex cloths, vintage details+ modern notions,

skinny jeans, colourful leggins, 

big glasses (not sunglasses) usually Ray Ban or Wayfarer; 

beards, short haircuts, messy hair,

classic sweaters, big and old T-shirts, massive scarves, 

bag in one hand, camera, Iphone, notebook, 

books and they love to spend their time in Starbuckses.

Find it weird? Well, I certainly do. However, I find it much better that Emo movement or Rock, for example.

Hipster in Boston

So, once you got the idea, you can now see how they actually look.

Russian hipster

Hipster in Finland

Some random Hipster;)

I've been waiting for this movie to come out ALL MY LIFE!

Avengers

Marvel Avengers.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPoHPNeU9fc Trailer link

These are the heroes I adored all my childhood. I used to have all Marvel  comics and watched every series about them. Basically, each of them has it's its own story and individual series. Sometimes they teamed up, but I've never dreamed to have them all in one movie! Not even an animated movie, but a movie with real actors in it. 

If I try to hide my personal passion to this story and think about the movie itself, I have to say, It's still wonderful. You have everything you want to see in the movie. Super professional and fresh actors such as Rober Downey Jr. (Ion Man), Chris Evans (Captain America), Mark Ruffalo (Hulk), Chris Hemsworth (Thor), Scarlett Johansson (Black Widow) and many more. These are those that I particularly liked. You also have great pictures and effects with all huge machines flying out of the hole from the space. 

One thing I didn't like about this movie is a Scarlett's play. First, she plays russian agent and speaks russian really bad. I speak russian and i have to say, she could have made more effort and practice her russian as I couldn't even understand her. That's how bad she talked. And also I didn't like her overall play and role itself. All of the heroes have some God given gifts while she has her latex-made costume, big lips and ordinary gun. I assume producers just needed pretty famous face in the movie as if it would be for kids and not big men. 

Still, Iron man or Robert Downey Jr. was the strongest part of the movie. He actually made this movie to be fun, beautiful and sentimental. I absolutely fell in love with him after this movie. 

So, as you may already noticed, I strongly suggest those of you who know what Marvel's comics are and those who has no idea about it to find some two spare hours and watch this amazing movie. 

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Rain,Rain,Rain

I am really shocked about the weather these day. Weeks and weeks the same rainy conditons with a strong wind and no sun at all. It's funny that we see writings about droughts all around the country while we have everything and everybody wet for these weeks.

So, I've just talked to a cab driver, funny old man and he said he haven't experienced such long weather conditions since 1950s and he added that the weather will stay the same untill the may. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/travel/article-612373/Lashings-rain-end-summer.html thes is what I found in daily mail about our situation.

To be honest, this is what I don't like about the UK there's no way I can get used to this weather since all these years. I am sure, some people will understand me, particulary people who hasn't been born here. 

Another thing I've noticed, what umbrellas people have. Well, many of them didn't have one, but I starter to analyse what actually umbrella means to people. The most popular small black folding umbrella. You better not buy such umbrella randomly as with our winds, you should go for a high quality one. As for those people who treat umbrella as a part of their style, they will always go for long umbrella with woden holds. I am not such type of person, but I do have long black umbrella that I usually use as a stick and I bought in Church's and It's really good, I have to say. Tourists will always go for a fancy  and colourful ones and I've noticed a couple of women having beatiful umbrellas with patterned rim.  I also really like transparent umbrellas that have a shape of mushroom. Basically it coveres you better than normal umbrellas. I also find them fashionable and you can actually see through them.

So, as forecast is probably right, we will still have rains coming and you can start noticing such things like me;) I am interested in umbrellas and what you can find notice in this sad and wet weather?

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Do you want your kids to be healthy?

I don' h have kids yet, but I do have a number of cousins and my fiancé actually has a lot of small brothers and sisters. I've noticed that some of them seem to eat crap food all the time despite their parents' guides and some of them are quite fat in their age. I had this thought in my mind for a long time and now want to direct this post for idea about activities kids should take in order to be health and have a good body. 

Personally, I find one of the best sports your kid can attend starting from the age of 7, let's say, is tennis. I myself used to play tennis for 3 years and really enjoyed it, I have to admit. I stopped engaging in it because I moved to another place and there were no such good trainers as my first one. I think, it's extremely important to find a good trainer as he or she will be the one who makes your kid either feel passionate about thing or simply hate it. Thus, this particular sport perfectly suits both boys and girls and also group's interraction  training is quite strong and your kid can make their first friends relations while attending it. 

 Especially for the boys, I would really suggest to think about attending martial arts for a couple of years. I know, it may sound weird, but I've seen how this experience helped some boys in their adults lives when they didn't have any chance, but fight. Another thing is when some of the boys in such classes don't actually stop engaging, but continue doing it on a higher level and even with trophies in their houses. So,  it's good to understand that one out of ten boys in a group could become famous because of it or when your own kid  could happen to be in trouble, he might have a friend who can fight for or help with this issue. I hope my boy will at least try to know what is it to feel confident while he walks in the dark street as he has learned some fight tricks when he was younger. 

 I also find swimming is an important part of kids development as  it requires the whole body to move. Thus, your kid can feel the result after a while and it will definitely make him/her healthier. Just to name others, I would say gymnastics can be useful for the body and football, of course. 

Another thing that I am passionate about is dance. When I was small, I used to dance ballet and surprisingly, I had a lot of boys in my group. Even today, they still have good straight backs thanks to it and girls have really fantastic shapes. Well, it doesn't apply to me anymore;)  Anyway, I just shared with my opinion about some useful classes your kid can take and hopefully, my kids will agree to attend at least one of them one day) 

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The bravest boy in the world

I just watched the program on Chanel 4+1 and I happened to stop at this channel since I simply found the name of the program interesting. Once I started watching it, I was absolutely shocked and had all mixed feeling in my mind. 

Didier with his mom Luz

The program was called "Turtle Boy" and it was about a seven year old boy called Didier Montalvo from rural Columbia in South America. The reason why Didier was compared with a turtle is because by the age of six he had a half of his body covered by 'a rare birthmark-congenital melanosytic nevus – affects around 1 in 20,000 newborn babies '( Mirror news, 2012). Rather than explaining I just can show you the photo of this poor boy. 

Now, you can see how bad the situation was.I say was, because I watched the whole program and I can assure you that at the moment Didier is doing good and doesn't have this mule at his back anymore. Thanks to a surgeon Neil Bulstrode from Great Ormond Street Hospital in London was invited to Colombia to help the team operate. Neil was know for helping kids with such syndrome for many times, but 'Didier’s CMN was the worst case I had ever seen due to the size and bulk of the lesion', he said. 

As I've seen in the program all doctors were afraid of the risk and the major risk was a huge loss of blood during the surgery. When decision about surgery was made, Didier was asked to give a certain amount of blood to replace the one that will be probably lost. While I watched, I wondered how boy was so brave all this time and I wasn't surprised when Didier refused to go to the hospital when surgery's morning came up. The safe call from his granddad got his confidence back, so he packed his things and went there. 

The surgery went quite well and overall five kilos of this birthmark was removed from his back. Isn't it huge? I felt so relieved when they were done and I didn't even feel uncomfortable when watching the process of surgery because I was so worried about the result. A week later new skin was placed and process of repairer has started. Didier went back home to his family's farm where his relatives couldn't wait for him to come. Another important day happened in his life when he had a chance to go on his first school day as a normal boy. 

I find this story very touchy and even cried at the end as this boy can finally live the life he and his family dreamed about. 

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/turtle-boy-mole-on-didier-montalvos-805688-Link to the article about Didier

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How music shapes my mood

Sometimes I feel that I have a really crap music in my iTunes list and because I usually put songs on shuffle,  it happens that my mood changes according to it. I've noticed when I start to think about something in my mind, the only thing that shapes my ideas is music itself and not lyrics. However, some people more focus on lyrics and thus, their thoughts are different. So, I believe that music really has a power over our thoughts and minds.

One of the things I would recommend to those who love listening to sad music and especially when they lay in the bed. I had this habit for a couple of years when I listened to my iPod and in the morning it was somewhere around my legs. My advise is not to listen to sad music at that time because you will let all stupid thoughts in your mind and it can even influence your dreams! That's what I usually experienced at the beginning. It's better to listen to something fast, that hasn't got any deep meaning. Simply make a low volume and I promise you will fall asleep quite fast with no bad dreams.

Another absolutely crucial thing is when you walk in the street with music in your headphones. You always need to make sure that I have a control over situation around you, especially when crossing the road. There has been so many cases when people were injured and even killed due to being more with music then with surrounding situation.

This also implies to Masaru Emoto's theory about meditation and part of it is represented in the idea of how water influences the structure of water and as our body consists of almost 80% of water it is obvious water has some power over us. Personally, I believe in such theories and agree with people who don't even recommend to take a bath or shower with bad thoughts in your mind or type of music that can make you really think.

Hope it all made sense;)

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Things you don't know about me

In fact, you don't really know a lot about me. You only know that  I am a student in The University of Buckingham, I am from Kazakhstan, I have a brother Damir and I am getting married to the best person in the world this summer;) So, I was thinking that rather than giving you all my biography info, I better tell things you don't know about me, i.e something that distinguishes me from other (I wish to believe)

1. I don't eat vegetables! Shocking? Well, my friends stopped question this fact as I continue to prove them my dislike to any vegetables. Although I can eat cucumber, I never eat one  by my own decision, it's usually my mom and my fiancé make me eat such things. The coolest thing about not eating vegetables is that I don't feel any difference between me and  those who eat them. In restaurants, when my friends order their favorite 'chicken caesar salad' I prefer some garlic bread with cheese ( If my friends read it, they would probably smile at this part as each time we go somewhere to eat, the first thing I wonder is whether they can make some garlic bread for me). Despite my taste, I still respect vegetable and respect both my fiancé and my big bro, so when I cook, I use some vegetable, but don't eat it by myself.

2. I am a crazy Tap Tap Revenge player! 

In case you don't recognize it, it's a game you can download for free on your iPhone. Both part 3 and 4 are amazing and when friend of mine bought very first iPhone, I became absolutely addicted to this game. My fingers were moving so fast, so you can hardly follow its movement;) I didn't even need to buy cool new songs as I've been rewarded for my points by new songs. When I was driving in the tube and playing this game some people happen to follow my play and I could see how their expression changed once I started my crazy finger dance.

Me and my husband-to-be

3. I have really curly hair. For 7 years I straight my hair every day;) I really regret that day when I bought my first hair straightener. I remember how me and my two friends were trying to learn  how to work with this thing and since that day I never stopped using it. I have to admit It's a great harm to any type of hair. It's like you kill your hair each time you use it and I will try to convince my little sisters and hopefully my doughtier not to use this thing or to get use of it only on special occasions. My hair is also a reason why I hate rainy weather as it makes my hair look natural. curly ;(

This is my fiancé's golden reviver called Khati and unfortunately it was stolen couple of months before.

4. I've never had a pet in my life except aquarium fishes. 

When I was 7 or something I was annoying my parents by saying that I extremely need some pet at home and I promised with all my heart that I will take care of it. Happily or sadly, my father made my wish come true and bought me an aquarium with 3 or 4 different sort of fishes. For first month I took care of it properly and then I simply stopped. I stopped providing it with oxygen, stopped cleaning the aquarium itself, I even stopped feeding them! My first fish died on the first week when gave them too my food and all the rest died only a month after when I simply forgot about their existence, I hope I had a good reason for it as apparently, none of them survived and I've decided I shouldn't have any pets for my childhood and at least next 10 years;)

This is it for now,

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Chingiz Khan now in London

Chingiz Khan is a well-known figure in the country I am from. There is still a controversial debate around the actual nationality of Temujin (his second name). Some say he is not Mongolian, but Kazakh. He is known by his cruel methods, but personally, I believe he simply was a respectful person and consequently possessed a great power over other people.

A huge statue of Chingiz Khan has been introduced on 14^th of April in the heart of London next to Marble Arch station. For me, the sculpture itself look really strong and attractive.

Surprisingly, Labour group leader Paul Dimoldenberg expressed his view by claiming that this particular figure is known for being a killer and there’s no way this part of history should be presented in the center of London.  Here are some of his comments:

He said the warlord had no known connection to Westminster — and added that there are plenty of other more suitable historical figures to honor.

“To erect a statue of Genghis Khan at Marble Arch is a bizarre decision,” he said. “Especially when there are so many others who have a real connection to Westminster and the Olympics and who have improved the lives of their fellow citizens.

"What on earth were Westminster’s Conservative councilors thinking when they agreed to a statue of him at Marble Arch? Who’s next? Stalin? Pol Pot? Saddam Hussein?”

In fact, Westminster selected the statue as part of its ongoing City of Sculpture festival, which aims to install works of art across the borough in the run-up to the Diamond Jubilee and the Olympic and Paralympic Games.

The artist Namdakov, author of this peace of art said he wanted to honor the warlord on the 850th anniversary of his birth and added:

 “If I’d wanted to show him as a warrior I’d have done so but here he is a thinker. He is a divine figure in my country.”

Westminster’s deputy leader Robert Davis dismissed the criticism, saying: “Our City of Sculpture festival seeks to inspire, challenge and educate.

“Art is most successful when it provokes a reaction or begins a conversation. The Genghis Khan equestrian statue is a fine sculpture.”

So, despite variety of opinions, the statue will stay on its place for a planned time, so that British people and tourists will be able to become more familiar with this historical figure.

P/s my friends told me when they went to this sculpture, there was no name and explanation around it and people was wondering who is this person was. I hope it’s only temporary. If it’s not, then there’s no sense in the whole debate around it as people don’t even recognize who he is. 

Accents variety in the English language

Last year I visited British library with my foundation group and teachers from Queen Mary university. Besides general view of it I extremely liked the section where English language is the main focus. Once you enter that part of the library, you can see writings all over the walls. The same phrase was written in almost all existing languages. In this section I volunteered to be part of the experiment where you enter a telephone booth and listen to the instruction. Next, you are asked to read some simple text in front of you and you will be asked from what country you are and what's your major language. Basically, this experiment analyses your background and your accent and then this information is used in library's survey.

Another awsome thing I found in this section was a track of different accents in english. First, you wear big headphones and then you can choose what type of accent you want to listen. I particulary liked Irish accent;) I wish my participation in the exam will help them to add another type of accent.

 I've decided to write this post because I just found this video with 7,500,000 views of a british guy presenting 24 different english accents. He said he was asked to make this video by his friends and I can really say that this boy has a talent. He performed this in a phone talk way and both at the begining and the end of the video he makes ot clear to everyone he didn't want to offend people and made this video only because of friends' requests.You can watch this video by clicking on this link:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dABo_DCIdpM

I liked this video because I am also passionate about accents and ai find it beautiful to listen how people change this language in the way they feel comfortable. I wish I could see more similar videos and obviously, I wish to be able to change my accent depending on who I speak to. Thanx for reading

London is my first love

Well-known tourists place. Westminster and Big Ben

I used to live in London for the last year and now, I visit London only on weekends because of my new university's location. Sometimes I manage to come to London only once i 2-3 week and it feels really weird to be as a guest here since 3 or 4 months ago I was one of those busy Londoners with their headphones and cups of coffee in hands. So, I am actually now in London and it made me think about things I like about London. I've decided not to write about things I dislike about it, since I don't want to go too far for the negative side and want to just keep it simple. So, shall we start?

1. Each time you come to London, It seems like nothing changed.

This is what I notice every time I come to London and especially all common places such as  Oxford street, Knightsbridge, Leicester square, Covent Garden and Sloane street. During weekend, you will always see groups of people with lots of bags, taking some photos and eating on the floor. You even can notice that type of people you see are similar each time. Basically, my theory is that each time you come to London after couple of weeks outside you won't feel that you missed something and people do the same thing every day. Some would say it might be addressed as a bad thing, but personally, I like the feeling that whenever day you come to London, you can become a part of this busy Londoners community.

2.The opportunity to meet extraordinary people. My friend once took me to one of the best places I've ever been to. It's called 'Portabella road' and you really want to be in this place any Saturday. Basically, it's a vintage fair, but I find it as not simply ordinary one. I've never seen such a variety of people and styles in one place. I am sure there are more such places in London and that what makes this place even more unique.

3. Transport facilities. First of all, drivers in London are absolutely crazy. It seems like there are no rules and bus drivers get drunk before they go work. This what makes this city even more busy as no one has time to wait when the red light is on and there are always people screaming to catch a bus or a cab. As for cabs, I kind of feel special when I am inside the cab as again, there are thousands of same cabs in London and apparently you become part of all these. I also find tube as a romantic thing. Especially when the train is approaching or you drive all the way on escalators.

People travel on a London Tube

Unfortunately, that's all I could think about at the moment.

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Birthday Boy!

Happy Birtday to my brother Damir!

Totally in love with this photo because we look like two robots in same t-shirts. Me and Damir in year 1995, approximately. 

Today is 19^th of April. Since I was 5 or 6 years old, I always knew almost every month our family celebrates our relatives’ birthdays. Many people would agree that when we were small, birthday was something special for us, even though each year we had pretty much the same thing. As for my brother’s birthday, I’ve always waited for this day and treated it just like my own. This might be because of number of guests coming to our house and most of them would bring some small gift for me as well;)

First of all, I would like to wish all the best to my brother. I actually just talked to him on Skype, but, really, you can’t say everything you have in your mind when it comes to wishes and congratulations. Luckily, I have this blog and I’ll be happy to know he reads it.

My brother is 3 years older than me. Personally, I don’t feel this difference between us at the moment, probably because we both study in universities and kind a makes us even more even;) I think my parents made a really good decision to wait 3 years to give a birth to me because my brother and me always had similar interests.  Of course, this doesn’t apply to our uni courses choice as he is a future lawyer and I am, hopefully, a journalist.  What I know for sure is that we both a bit lazy and notice it from our passion to write our assignments the night before the deadline (sorry, Mom).

My beautiful family last New Year.

A special congratulations and thanks to my parents. I really miss you both, guys! A couple of years we used to call him together from Kazakhstan to the UK. Now, we both couple of hours away from each other. 

I think I am going to stop now as the further I go, more endless this post would become. I am very happy for my brother and just like 14 years ago I still wait for this day to say this words to my lovely brother;)

I have one song on repeat in  my headphones  while I am writing this post. It’s called Payphone sang by Maroon 5 and Wiz Khalifa . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FlQSQuv_mg&ob=av3e

You can listen to it in order to understand in what kind a mood I am now( even though the meaning of song is different, I just like it).

Always have your toys with you;)

Once again, Happy Happy Happy Birthday!! I love you, Tupi)

What to do when you got cold.

What to do when you got cold.

Have you ever had a feeling that your back, shoulders and neck hurt and your face is burning? Well, I did. I actually had such conditions only 3 day ago and I promise, I had no place to put myself. I thought there was nothing I could do about it. I address this post to those who ever had similar situation or will have. (I hope not much of you, guys).

The first thing I did was to stop lying on my sofa and bring a lot of orange juice. I promise, orange juice is my very best friend when I feel I just got cold. Interestingly, it doesn’t have to be ‘freshly squeezed juice’ because, once it squeezed, you have to drink immediately. It basically loses its value right after 5 minutes after it was pressed. That’s why I never packed fresh squeezed orange juices, but it doesn’t apply to juices with bits, as it’s a different thing. So, what I suggest is to drink normal orange juice (not right from the fridge, of course).

I suggest to drink a big amount of juice or water as it will help your body to recover itself. Another drink that really helps is a cup of warm water mixed with couple of jam spoons. I usually use jam made by my fiancé’s mom, which has small bits inside and I prefer the raspberry flavour. It’s really easy to produce jam if you have a big amount of sugar and raspberries. The amount of both have to be even and you can either boil this mix or to compress it by hand.  As this jam has a lot of sugar in it, you will get a delicious drink which going to make you feel better. Another option for drinks can be warm milk+honey.

My fiancé always finds next step weird and even thinks I am doing a wrong think. Once I feel I have a temperature of my body raised, I go to a really hot bath and try to stay there for 10-12 minutes. A lot of people told me you should stay away from the shower and bath If you’ve got cold and especially, temperature.

Right after you finish with bath, try to wear your warmest pyjama and go to your bed. I suggest covering yourself with a couple of duvets as It will make you to sweat a lot. This is the final stage when all your sickness goes away. 

I am not sure whether this technique would work on everyone, but I think If you know your body well, you will know does this type of treatment works for you or not.

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The weirdest movie I've seen since this year.

The Cabin In The Woods

Yesterday my friends convinced me to watch this movie. Overall, I might say that it was simply a waste of our time because: 

-Mostly unknown actors didn't actually show a good play since this movie was supposed to be a scary one, thanks to them, it was more close to another film about teenagers being killed in the lake house. 

-As usual, the trailer was far more interesting than almost 2 hour movie full of naked girls and blood. So, it leads me to my theory: Unknown actors+Good trailer+trivial scenario=waste of time. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cQWnPVOSZKg Watch the trailer to check if I am right.

However, I quite liked the idea about an organization where all work is kept under the ground. This organisation consists of heads, represented in this movie with Sigourney Weaver, and employers in laboratory coats whose work is to observe the process of people being killed. The most awful thing about these people is that they make bets every year on who is going to be killed first and how. 

Only after an hour of wait and incomprehention we finally understand that this all is a part of sacrifice lead every year in order to satisfy 'evil Goods'. These Gods are represented as something huge and they swim in lava. Weird, isn't it?  

The funniest moment of the movie is when Sigourney explains the order of people being killed. It seems that in every young company there have to be one frivolous girl, an athlete, a scientist,a fool and a virgin. And when one of the girls finds out she was named as a virgin, she seems to be surprised, clearly. And then goes a fantastic quote: 'Well, we work with what we have'. ;) 

So, I can't think of anything else that might attract you guys. After reading this you can decide whether to watch this movie or not. However, I didn't tell an interesting that about beasts in this movie. This organization kept all world's ever known beasts individual boxes and once they all release, they've started to kill anyone they see. That is a crazy scene and you might want to see it. I promise, it's really impressive.

Anyway, thanks for reading this and these are some good pictures for you.

Those cruel people I told you about

Thor;)

Zombie attact

My favorite iphone app!

INSTAGRAM

A couple of weeks before my good friend advised me to download this fantastic app so I did. As I've mentioned in my past posts, I am not a very good social networker, but as a proud Iphonier, I've decided to check this app out and was really impressed. So, let's see what uniqueness does this app has. 

Basically, Istagram is a new protosharing application for not only iPhone, but recently for Androids too. It's absolutely free for now and once you download it, you just need to make a simple registration in order to start posting. This app is always lets you post edited photos not only in Instagram, there's also a choice to allow photo post on your Facebook, tweeter and couple of similar networks. 

This also means that your friend from other networks can immediately follow you on Instagram as well. In my app I have 15 different effects which make your photos look older, lighter, adds contrast. Once you're done with editing you can add caption and location. As for your friends, they can see new upload in their news section. They then can 'like' your photo and leave a comment.  So, overall, this app is very easy to use and you also need access to the internet in order to make it work. 

3 Fact about Instagram

1. Instagram at the moment consists of 13 people, but was first founded only by two. The contrast between employers and consumers is essential. The heads of Instagram signed their first contract with Apple since they said it will help in PR company and they are not as good businessmen as Apple. 
2. Instagram has been used by MTV crew on recent Grammy. Check this website to see all the photos and comments from this event. http://www.nuwomb.com/instagram-at-the-grammys-mtv-making-use-of-iphone-photography/
3. Facebook made a $1 billion deal with Instagram heads. I think this means that Facebook and Mark Zuckerberg see this app as a threat and takes all photosharing value from them. This shocking news made a lot of talks , so you can watch this review explaining all the details.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3sqED-RrRE

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More steps;)

 Proposal  

Now, it is time for the most exciting part of the story. You never know when you ready for this step and you will always think of it as not a perfect time. The truth is, you will never find this perfect moment as our life always full of small events that you expect. So, this is fiance's job to decide what time will be most comfortable for everyone. The fun part is the process of getting ready for big moments. 

The ways proposal can be done vary depending on what type of relations couples have and what they prefer. Personally, I believe in real creativity each of us possess when desired. Simply go on Youtube and you will find out what fantastic things people do for their lovers. It is a good way for getting ideas and inspirations. It is even makes me feel better. Proposal doesn't have to be perfect, it just needs to be planned with a plan and good help of friends. 

  WeDiiing   

In my view, proposal can be seen as a reward you get on complation of your project and once you got it, hard work starts and more responsibility you get. In my country, wedding is similar to gipsy wedding. The difference lies in the ceremony and plan of the wedding. What I like the most in today's weddings, despite cultural traditions, is friend's performances. 

Again, You tube will show all the ways people show their creativity. Wedding can be a dream, but can also be a nightmare if the bride is not happy with her look. One rule which applies here: make sure it's not too much. Our good friend Youtube will show all the funny looks brides had and epic fails happened during the wedding. The best way to avoid such accidents, just to be careful. I think, I am going to stop at this point as next steps will be future life with kids and I cannon really analyse this part of life yet. Thank you for reading this and I'll keep writing for you, gyus.

Quick guide on love relations step by step

Let me introduce you to the love of your life.  

It seems as an obvious thing but, before you start dreaming about how will your life look like with future husband/wife, you need to make sure you have a couple of candidates and as time goes by, you will know for sure who he or she is. Furthermore, once you meet him/her, it doesn't mean everything will happen fast and clear. There might be some time of separation, understanding whether it's the right person to you or not and I find this notion normal. It's even helps to establish strong confident relations. I think, first reaction is not always the right reaction, so we all need some time to figure out what we feel inside. 

Once the decision is made, I would say a year of continious relation with butterflies in your stomach, flowers and candies.  After one year, it comes to another level of relations where you will have to meet each other's parents and believe me, this will mean a lot. Basically, there is no way out anymore;) In some cases, you can meet parents and then brake up, but it never ends up in a good way. So, my advise is to  meet parents and be familiar with each other's families after a year of relationships and even start to share apartments.

                Sustainable relationship.

I've decided to cover this topic since I've been quite shocked when my husband-to-be said that it's not necessary to make actual proposal. The thing is, a year ago he gave a ring as a symbol of our relationship and now, when the wedding is already been prepared by our parents, he says we just have to choose wedding rings. So, this blog is dedicated to those who are not sure whether they know the process of marriage, especially my fiancé. 

                    Share an apartment. 

It is really delicate issue, since each couple decides to solve this problem in their own way. I know some couples who understand their parents are just not ready to accept this fact, so they've decided to hide this fact. Of course, it's not the best way of having relationship, but if that's what lovers want, why not? Sharing an apartment is an absolutely important step and I promise, If you had enough time to get to know each other, we will not regret your decision. 

I've decided to split this topic  bit, so I'll continue steps in my next blog

Are you scared of the dark?

My friends and I are now having a conversation about mysterious things ever happened in our lives.  Interestingly, this topic is actually inspired me and this is what a lot of people have in mind right before they go to a sleep.

It is now five of us siting around the table and telling fantastic and paranormal stories happened with either us or people we know. My theory is that the possibility of paranormal world's existence can be considered as real because each of us have something to add when it comes to such type of talk. 

However, as William Goldman noted, 'Nobody knows anything' and I believe this can be applied to the fact that people either prefer not to tell the truth or to embelish real stories. 

So, from subjective point of view, all these stories may not be true .

Each person can see this topic depending on his/her sensitivity or set of beliefs. As a future journalist, I am interested in this topic because it's full of assumptions and people instinctively wish to receive fully proven information and get more familiar with the world around us.

Hopefully, I will some day get a chance to explore such topic and bring something new to the world. 

Thanks for reading

And I'll come back to my interesting conversation;)