Let me introduce you to the love of your life.
It seems as an obvious thing but, before you start dreaming about how will your life look like with future husband/wife, you need to make sure you have a couple of candidates and as time goes by, you will know for sure who he or she is. Furthermore, once you meet him/her, it doesn't mean everything will happen fast and clear. There might be some time of separation, understanding whether it's the right person to you or not and I find this notion normal. It's even helps to establish strong confident relations. I think, first reaction is not always the right reaction, so we all need some time to figure out what we feel inside.
Once the decision is made, I would say a year of continious relation with butterflies in your stomach, flowers and candies. After one year, it comes to another level of relations where you will have to meet each other's parents and believe me, this will mean a lot. Basically, there is no way out anymore;) In some cases, you can meet parents and then brake up, but it never ends up in a good way. So, my advise is to meet parents and be familiar with each other's families after a year of relationships and even start to share apartments.
Sustainable relationship.
I've decided to cover this topic since I've been quite shocked when my husband-to-be said that it's not necessary to make actual proposal. The thing is, a year ago he gave a ring as a symbol of our relationship and now, when the wedding is already been prepared by our parents, he says we just have to choose wedding rings. So, this blog is dedicated to those who are not sure whether they know the process of marriage, especially my fiancé.
Share an apartment.
It is really delicate issue, since each couple decides to solve this problem in their own way. I know some couples who understand their parents are just not ready to accept this fact, so they've decided to hide this fact. Of course, it's not the best way of having relationship, but if that's what lovers want, why not? Sharing an apartment is an absolutely important step and I promise, If you had enough time to get to know each other, we will not regret your decision.
I've decided to split this topic bit, so I'll continue steps in my next blog
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